That's part of the problem. People cannot just "destroy gender" they HAVE to label it for themselves. I have been reading your comments, Holly, and you are being very harmful to these people who are just reading a comic and taking Nates idea and saying how good it is for him. There is no point to destroying gender, as you say, because that's all gender is, is LABELS. What are you gonna do without these labels?
Not everyone needs to label. Some people don’t feel the need and that’s perfectly valid for them. It’s also perfectly valid to label yourself in a lot of ways. Only you can say which is truly harmful to yourself. Labels just help people feel better and it doesn’t matter all that much if you believe that gender doesn’t exist. Just respect others if they’re not harming someone else (or themselves) and leave people to their joy. Harming themselves or others is definitely different depending on the person but these comments and this comic definitely isn’t doing either of those things and please leave this alone
Why not destroy gender and embrace individualism? Why do you have to label it?
That's part of the problem. People cannot just "destroy gender" they HAVE to label it for themselves. I have been reading your comments, Holly, and you are being very harmful to these people who are just reading a comic and taking Nates idea and saying how good it is for him. There is no point to destroying gender, as you say, because that's all gender is, is LABELS. What are you gonna do without these labels?
Not everyone needs to label. Some people don’t feel the need and that’s perfectly valid for them. It’s also perfectly valid to label yourself in a lot of ways. Only you can say which is truly harmful to yourself. Labels just help people feel better and it doesn’t matter all that much if you believe that gender doesn’t exist. Just respect others if they’re not harming someone else (or themselves) and leave people to their joy. Harming themselves or others is definitely different depending on the person but these comments and this comic definitely isn’t doing either of those things and please leave this alone