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I work at an indie bookstore n every time I’m called ma’am or miss by a customer I put a coin in a jar called the Ma’am Jar and once it gets full my manager’s gonna buy me boba and I gotta say it feels pretty powerful

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Ahhh bathrooms yes this has been a problem just make gender neutral ones

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Hello I am also happy to meet you!, how are you doing? :'D

Joke aside, this made me burst out laughing AND it was painfully relatable at the same time, haha. It happens at times even after picking a name, though less of course - it's this awwwkwaaaard split second where you have to introduce yourself to new people, and you and your friends in the know hesitate between outing you or having to deadname you during the whole thing...

(Only slightly related, but I realized recently that "ND" sounded like the name Andy and it made me smile :'))

Bonus: f*ck gendered bathrooms. Long live gender neutral bathrooms.

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"you did this on purpose" highly relatable

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Mar 15, 2022·edited Mar 15, 2022

Lol it’s so problematic that they’re right next to eachother I don’t think about it until I’m right there and then I’m like deer in the headlights

I work at a university tho so I’m never too far from an all-gender bathroom

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omg, the bathroom choice. Too real. Can I put off going back to the office forever?

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You'll get there, friend. I know you will. ❤️

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I started transition 3 months into the pandemic and it’s such a trip! 100% accurate lol!

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Wow I feel so very seen.

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Oh fuck I feel ALL of this having transitioned during the pandemic too

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Love it.

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Hahaha yesssss YESSSS bingo bango bongo

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