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Dee's avatar

That one time you just casually came out as trans as a kid and then promptly forgot about it…kind of a mood 😭 I’m pretty sure I once said something similar along the lines of “but why are there only girls and boys, why can’t I just be something else?” I can’t prove that this happened, but it feels likely. Thank goodness for old friends who can remember these little gems for us 💖

Marcy's avatar

I quite vividly remember asking a friend what she'd do if she ever could switch her sex at will. And mentioned I'd switch mine at least once to know how it was. I also vividly remmeber thinking "I wish I were a girl" around the same time, in high school, but never telling anyone, and only realising what those thoughts meant 6 years later

Jenn's avatar

Hey, six years is pretty quick compared to a lot of us!

Marcy's avatar

True! I thank that to increased trans visibility (and, at the time, increased acceptance) helping me realise I was trans.

Gwen's avatar

same experience, I knew I wanted to be a girl at 16 (and apparently at 4 but I forgot) but didn't transition until I was 27. took until societal acceptance hit a critical mass before I could even think about it

Jules's avatar

A couple years ago I came across some old emails between me and a friend - lifelong, from my homeschool days 😅 - in which I was joking about growing a beard (I joked a _lot_ in high school about wanting facial hair), and they responded, "If you grow a beard, we'll have to call you [masculine form of given name]!" Well, guess who's grown a beard now! And guess how I decided what my legal name would be 😂

Jorge Braga's avatar

omg I "joked" so much about having a beard... I was always talking about all the crazy stuff I would do to my facial hair 👀 now I'm too lazy and scared to change anything

Evelyn Frey's avatar

Feels! Did you know it was an option at the time? I ran around telling everyone I wanted to be a girl and they were like - yeah sure kid, whatever

Was about 20 years later when I was like - oooooh I don't just have to wish this?

Btw ND, big fan since Nimona. I've loved watching your journey. The moment me and my little princess of power fan girls realised you were one of us had us punching the air <3

Amyphist's avatar

Unexpected lore reveal! :D

Halie Siobhan's avatar

My mom used to tell me all the time that when I was a kid I’d start stories with “when I was a boy…”. Guess my 3 y/o subconscious knew a lot more than I thought.

Parker's avatar

It was always within you!

Gwen's avatar

my mom when I came out: "oh that makes sense, when you were four you told me you were a 'girl boy'"

Andrew Farrell's avatar

Lol I have been on the free tier for a while and thinking oh I have bit more cash I should upgrade - and this is the one where I thought okay this is it, I need to see the rest! :)

I'm not very observant.