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"your husband or wife or whatever" damn congrats, how's it feel to achieve gender enlightenment

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okay so i recently discovered N.D. through substack, but when i found out he was married to MOLLY OSTERAG aka the creator of my literal favorite book series when i was younger made the world seem magical and connected :) you both are really inspiring to me!!!

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Lol I used to have a passport that looked so different to me that people would usually say, “Wow, what happened here?” when they looked at it 😂

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Jul 18, 2023·edited Jul 18, 2023

i still think about the time i was out and about with another enby friend when a rando on the street came up and went "excuse me ma'ams- uh, sirs." the confusion allowed us to walk away without being drawn into conversation. gender fuckery for fun and profit.

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I love the assigned check at restaurant bit. When that happens with my wife and I, we both "bicker" over who has to pay even though we have a joint account.

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Jul 18, 2023·edited Jul 18, 2023

Biiiig mood. I even got asked if I was old enough for a bra fitting without a parent there. I was with my then-fiancee. It was for our wedding. I was 35. 😂

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dear ND,

love all of these! especially "your husband or wife or whatever"! wonderful!

much love,

myq

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Power couple fr 💪

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the “girl, run” one… lol

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11/10

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The amount of times people thought I was my wife's son is astounding. I even got scolded by an older woman (stranger) for messing around with my wife saying "no you can't have my ice cream" 😳 Apparently I wasn't being respectful towards my mother 😶

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“Your husband or wife or whatever” literally the dream, that’s like. The ideal life. I hope I get there one day.

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Lol the "teen boy bubble" happens to me a lot

Most of the times have been at restaurants (I am NOT twelve and under why do you keep giving me your kids' menus) but about a year ago at high school orientation, my friend's parents saw me and said to them "why's there a twelve year old boy in here" THEY'VE KNOWN ME SINCE FIRST GRADE

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Cis people accidentally getting it exactly right will never not be funny

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Gender baby! Sockem up!! 💪 💪 💪

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Do people not know the word spouse as a thing?

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