Assigned "So Brave" By An Older Woman Who Is Adamant That The Only Reason Your Hair Could Possibly Look Like That Is Because A Friend Of Yours Has Cancer

as a fellow redhead of indeterminate gender, this really hit me. i've literally had hairstylists who said they wouldn't dye my hair if I asked :| the feeling of cutting it and having agency over it when so many people have opinions on it is so powerful.