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Does anything look better on a body than drapey, flowy, mostly naked? Bring back mythological chic!

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#5 is Howl's Moving Castle Corporate Chic lol

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I want to be transmasc Artemis in a woodland glade but I’m mostly Just Some Guy

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Trying to find a non-awful balance between White Dad at a BBQ, Boy Toddler, and Milo Thatch is harder than it looks

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Somehow, despite renting my own dang apartment, I still manage to be Cody.

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so so great. love every look for different reasons and different seasons.

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This is why I'm kind of thankful to have suffered through school uniform. I learned how to tie a tie - only useful life skill I acquired there...

As someone *cough* in thier 40's 😭, socially transitioning (so far), I get a lot of this. Wearing a lot of teenie weenie beanies & ripped jeans, wondering if I come across as a teen skater boy or just a cringe middle age person

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God this is such a mood. I've recently started transitioning and my fashion interests range from "hobbit who just wants to wander and write a book" to "Ramona Flowers"

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I aim for Just Some Guy but always end up somewhere on the spectrum between “assigned ladies at Trader Joe’s” and “am I in the wrong bathroom” 😂

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the cody tho

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Special mentions to options 1 and 6 for being so cool, option 2 for being particularly whoa, and the Charlie option for bringing back Lost memories :')

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I got called "sir" at CVS last night! I got the backwards baseball cap points! Somehow the crop top didn't detract from the "sir"-ness!

I feel so much of this so deeply. What's "one vibe only"?? I love the transmasc Artemis but I'm not yet at the point of Body Masculine Enough to Feel Ok In Femme Clothes. Plus, testosterone gave me 15 extra pounds over the winter so none of my summer stuff fits and I'm floundering. I have more ass now, I didn't know I could possibly have <I>less</I>

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Your tie experience reminds me so much of my brothers when they got to high school and had to figure out how to tie ties for their uniforms. Once they got it right they never untied them again and just loosened them at the end of each day to take them off instead 😆

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Oh what a mood (or several)

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#6 is giving me a bit of gender envy, but honestly you look great in all of 'em, ND!

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