This is so well-timed, I only realized I was bisexual this past February, after having strong feelings for my best friend for SEVEN MONTHS (she’s my girlfriend now ^v^)
Yeh I waffle between bi (bc we always need that rep) and omnisexuality, which nestles in that place between bi and pan. Bc pan is very, 'gender doesn't matter, only love', and to some of us, gender is a thing we love very much - and while the gender of who we love doesn't define or limit *who* we love, we do also know that gender is something that is important to people, that brings euphoria, and we respect everyone's genders and the beautiful wide spectrum of gender which they can inhabit.
I suspected given you’re bigender and Lee coming out and everything…not to speculate on other people’s sexualities or genders or the terms that feel right for them…that’s for you to decide and feel out. And obviously can change over time! Gender can be so fluid, and honestly sexuality too. Sometimes it can be hard to change labels if you got used to using a particular one for so long…but life is an ever-evolving thing! Congrats on coming out (again), lol!
Family screen time is always the best time for epiphanies
This is so well-timed, I only realized I was bisexual this past February, after having strong feelings for my best friend for SEVEN MONTHS (she’s my girlfriend now ^v^)
were you watching heated rivalry bc it was a violent reminder for me
Yeh I waffle between bi (bc we always need that rep) and omnisexuality, which nestles in that place between bi and pan. Bc pan is very, 'gender doesn't matter, only love', and to some of us, gender is a thing we love very much - and while the gender of who we love doesn't define or limit *who* we love, we do also know that gender is something that is important to people, that brings euphoria, and we respect everyone's genders and the beautiful wide spectrum of gender which they can inhabit.
once again thinking of that Instagram comment that said, "bro has been every letter of LGBT"
Someone called it the EGOT of being queer, and now I can’t think of it any other way, lol
Relatable! But now I want to know what show or movie you were watching… 👀
“You’ve taken your first step into a larger world.”
I suspected given you’re bigender and Lee coming out and everything…not to speculate on other people’s sexualities or genders or the terms that feel right for them…that’s for you to decide and feel out. And obviously can change over time! Gender can be so fluid, and honestly sexuality too. Sometimes it can be hard to change labels if you got used to using a particular one for so long…but life is an ever-evolving thing! Congrats on coming out (again), lol!
I call it the russian doll closet!!! Being into guys as a guy is awesome, WHAT?
"Always something with this bitch!" me, to myself.
i had the same thing but about being a lesbian lol
as a fellow bisexual, congratulations!!
I feel like I was also ~35 when I figured it out.
I literally did this last year in basically the same way
Congratulations! 🎉
Yeah it happens like that sometimes.
Need to know what you were watching that triggered this moment